Change yourself!!!!!!!

 The biggest problem of our life is that we take time to know ourselves and take a right action and decision to change the things that are not helping us to grow as a human person. To change is the Law of the Nature, everything around is changing, changing for better. We would like to see everyone around us change, change their behaviour and attitudes, we want them to be perfect and saints, demand their total conversion and transformation, but when it comes to us we throw up our hands up in the air and say its not for us for others. We change houses, bring change in diet, we go out to change our friends, relations, we change practically everything that does not satisfy and make us happy, but we are still sad and disturbed because we don't change ourselves.

Another group of people dwell and take seriously the comments made by others about them. They throw tantrum about what others, say, think and speak about them. They make to feel that the world has come to an end with the negative comments made about their life, actions, behaviour and lifestyle. I am also open to to appreciation and criticism of the others about me, my attitudes, and my style of functioning and especially the way i preach the word of God. It took me some years to come to this stage where i take both in my stride and always thank the others for their sincerity and genuineness in giving their comments. Actually i have learnt over the period of time that both appreciation and criticism are good because appreciation inspires you and criticism warns and prepares you, gives you an opportunity for a change.

Let us keep life simple as far as possible because simplicity opens the doors to millions of positive graces to live our human life. the more simple life is the more is less tensions and stress in life, when simplicity is dominant in life then we step out easily to know the need of the others and go out to help and support in their difficulties. `````sometimes simplicity helps us to know ourselves and it does not tire us, let us not think too much about our achievements and successes ....keep everything simple....keep smiling....the more simple we are, the more we begin to live life in its fullness....

Some times we meditate or take seriously the hurts and burns in life, we waste too much of time thinking of it and of those who caused us. No hurt or wound is big, the bigger are those who are trying to nurse and cure us. They keep our hurts fresh with their useless and selfish comments, they go deeper into the wounds which are of no significance at first look. It is same with the relationships, they are not big but those who keep and honor them are bigger.  So whom you are going meet in life, will be determined by your heart, who will meet you in life, will be determined by time. But the most important point is in life, in whose heart you are going to live forever will be determined by your behaviour and attitudes.