LEARN from our own and others mistakes which normally we ignore and don't bother about it though it does affect us consciously and unconsciously. There have been people who never came up in life or just gave up the race in the middle because they ignored the warnings of mistakes which would have been a great help to achieve spiritual and emotional goals. Those who take their mistakes seriously, reflect and evaluavate them, they learn amazing lessons which transforms their lives. These lessons learned make them to look forward to a new life and mission, hope and joy-filled life which even inspires others who are in the same boat.
When we make mistakes and do not acknowledge them it brings down our efficiency down in all the spheres of human life. Once we have defeated ourselves then we begin to compare ourselves with others and start thinking very small as a results small doors of success, peace, joy and happiness open in spite of having all the necessary strength and energy. The effect of getting small things in life brings in a lot negative element in life which destroys everything gradually. Thinking big. achieving great heights and success gets earesed from our hard disk. The result of not thinking big we end up receiving small things which do not satisfy our thursts and hunger as a human being.
There are some of us who just do day dreaming and run after things for which they have no calibre, or cut out for, they expect expect fantastic things and evens to happen in life for which they have neither have talents or cut out for, they end up in failures and self-pity. Things which we cannot afford should not not sought after because at the end there will be only dissatisfaction. We try to tread or walk on a path which you are not going to walk or we do not know the way, we end up landed in a foreign land. Some things and moments in life we cannot achieve that does not mean we cannot get there, if we put in hard work and efforts, yes success we will tasted by us. so Dream the dreams which we can easily with work and confidence can achieve. We will fall several times but learn to rise up and get up to walk....then we would know the difference between failure and success.
In life we receive many blessings from our elders, these wisdom comes handy when we things in life don't go well, when there turns and twists in life, apply these wisdom of the elders and see the results. The wisdom of the elders is always useful and significant in our growth. If we just throw up our hands in the air and give up when failures knock our doors then we would never taste the success, remember the saying of the eleders...if we don't read and know about things we don't know how would we enrich ourselves....we got to dive into the water then we learn to swim. So think a lot and then feel that it is possible to fly or soar into the sky. Our limits are not within our house boundary but limits are beyond the horizon. Let us not think like the frogs but think like an eagle which accepts the sky as its horizon to explore.