Meet Yourself!!!!!!

 

Many of those who come to me either for confession or counselling, I pose a question like "who are you?" and unfortunately most of them take time and then give vague answers not connected with their persons. Most of us do not know who we are and as a result we find difficult to know the other with whom we live and work. It is good to spend time with ourselves and speak, talk and argue with ourselves at least for few moments in a day. The solution and answers to all our problems and inter personal relationships lies within ourselves. If we listen and talk to ourselves we will meet the real person. We will begin to live, accept, love and acknowledge who we are.  We are the most precious, talented and excellent person but we have not accepted ourselves because we do not spend time with ourselves. 

There is so much of goodness and wealth within us that sometimes it goes along with us to the cemetery without having used or utilised it for oneself and for the society. `We must learn to focus on the good thoughts, ideas, inspirations and goodness which will lead us to good experiences and achievements in life. Once we have focused on the meaning of life then it is not hard to sacrifice or do good for someone. It is in understanding ourselves and the mission and goal of life that we can live life in its fullest. The sacrifices that we make in this state of life will have impact on the lives of the others, but unfortunately it is hard to find those people who will understand and respect our sacrifices. But this should not ground or stop us but keep doing what you are positively doing, you will get positive results. 

In the process of meeting ourselves we will feel good and begin to appreciate ourselves as we are. Then we stop loading unnecessary and undue expectations. We begin loving the person we are and leads to further discovery of our person. The feeling of being best is when the others see you the real person you are. In this discovery we realize and understand that we are nothing without God who makes us precious and holy. Once we have accepted who we are then we begin letting God to play the most important role. We allow God to do and achieve great heights of success in our spiritual and secular life.