Life is Short, Don't waste Time !!!!!!!!

 There are many of us who would like to impose our ideas, opinions, statements on the others and expect the others to behave and live lives according to our set standards for them. When we impose something of our own on others we make them feel that they are nothing and are inferior to us or have no voice or opinion to express...make them feel low. It could be any subject or matter which should not make the other person feel inferior when we harp on it too much and make it more difficult for the person to understand it in better way. By doing this we project that we are more intelligent, wise and perfect than the others who are foolish one and must listen and behave as we command. 

We can settle our problems and issues and broken relationships by using sweet words in conversation or having a positive attitude towards the problems and issues that we have with the others. It depends on who understanding we are and how we deal with the difficult issues at hand, the issues can be blown out of proportion or go awry if not understood in right perspectives. I feel that there is no problem which we cannot settle or have a solution, if we control our thoughts and mind and above our tongue, there can be sweet and acceptable solutions for both the parties. By speaking in feat of anger we break relationships as well as persons beyond repairs. 

We have been taught to obey and respect the elders and even fall at their feet to receive their blessings. They are models of integrity, wisdom, understanding and strength and we have to learn from their life of witness especially in settling the matters and issues quickly without wounding and hurting anyone. They teach us that we need nice and good people in life as companions and friends to experience life in its fullness. sometimes we may have to give up those in life who create problems and are stumbling blocks in our growth as human beings. The company of bad people can be source of tensions and stress because they show us not the right way but lead us on a wrong path which leads us to destruction.