Somethings in Life....cannot be recovered.....

There are many things in our human life which are very delicate. Like relationship in the family can be very delicate like a piece of glass which can be broken with a slight but strong push...many families are broken due to misunderstanding and words hurled at each other...once the words are expressed in a negative way they have negative effect and results....families do not speak for years with each other due to some words spoken but communicated in different sense and manner by others...misunderstanding created.....which is lingering still....separating each other....making them enemies....

 Stones thrown at each other cannot be recovered....they cause injuries....they bleed for the rest of life...stones of doubt and suspicion, criticism and misunderstanding....misinformation....these stones multiply and over the period of time....these stones are enough to build a negative wall between us. 

 Some of us say words which are very harsh and hurtful...these words cannot be taken back...even if taken back they already cause a huge hole in the hearts and minds of the people...they fly like arrows which cause either emotional or psychological death....words break down the walls of relationship and friendship....but no one is willing to clarify and find out what was the meaning of these words...words kept in heart and mind, pondered and reflected negative become poison which lead to revenge ....

 I have come across some families who due to genuine reasons were not able to attend marriages, sacraments or funerals....but they have been branded as those who are not interested in human relationship...these occasions once over cannot be brought back....

 Time after it is gone....it cannot be recovered....many who have made mistakes in life are regretting for having not made right use of the time....time and tide never wait....

 Trust lost cannot be recovered....trust in relationship and friendship is important....it is a foundation...lack of it break marriages....lack of trust leads to wars and fights

 Belief and trust is like a coin which we use for making a phone call....you drop into the box...once you drop it is dropped...you cannot get it out....so misunderstanding once created cannot be done away with...even with best of clarifications and reasonings....